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2020 Book List

My 2020 Book List isn’ as long as most other years. I only read 19 books in 2020. You would think during a world wide pandemic I would have read more but instead I watched a lot of British TV.

I am a big historical fiction fan so you will find a lot of that on my book list 2020.

Book List 2020

Book List 2020

Atomic Habits by James Clear. Great book to start the year off with if you are looking to establish some new habits and reach some goals. Love the simple, doable approach.

atomic habits

The Water Dancer by Ta-Nehisi Coates. A beautifully written book that deals with the horrors of slavery along with the fantastical. Our book club loved it.

The Water Dancer

The Book Woman of Troublesome Creek by Kim Michele Richardson I loved this book and learning about a group of people I knew nothing about. A story about the importance of compassionate human connection made by the packhorse librarians.

The book Woman of Troublesome Creek

The Things We Cannot Say by  Kelly Rimmer A powerful WWII novel that follows a woman’s urgent search for answers to a family mystery that uncovers truths about herself that she never expected.

the things we cannot say

Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert. A great book if you want to live a more creative life and over come the fear of expressing your creativity.

big magic

The Boston Girl by Anita Diamant This was probably my least favorite book I read this year. Story of a young Jewish woman growing up in Boston in the early 20th century.

The boston girl

The Giver of Stars by JoJo Moyes Another story of the pack horse librarians in Kentucky. A nice followup to Book Woman of Troublesome Creek.

the giver of stars

Code Name Helene by Ariel Lawhon. I really enjoyed this book. Another WWII historical fiction – the story of spy Nancy Wake who became one of the most decorated women in WWII.

code name helene

Cilka’s Journey by Heather Morris

Book 2 of the Tattooist of Auschwitz. A true story of love and resilience.

cilkas journey

The Little Shop of Found Things  by Paula Brackston

A little magic, a little romance – a perfect combo. Xanthe has always had an affinity with some of the antiques she finds. When she touches them, she can sense something of the past they come from and the stories they hold.

the little shop of found things

The Flight Girls by Noelle Salazar

 A powerful tale of courage and sacrifice by the Women Airforce Service Pilots during WWII

The Flight Girls

Secrets of The Chocolate House by Paula Brackston

Second of the Found Things Series. More magic, romance and a little danger.

secrets of the chocolate house

The Henna Artist by Alka Joshi

Lovely book, well written. A portrait of one woman’s struggle for fulfillment in a society pivoting between the traditional and the modern.

Book List 2020

The Henna Artist

Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine by by Gail Honeyman

This was a gift from a friend and not the normal kind of book i usually read but I found it quite delightful! An eccentric and quirky character and a story about the importance of friendship and human connection.

eleanor oliphant

All the Devils are Here by Louise Penny

The newest book in one of my all time favorite series, Inspector Gamache murder mystery!

All the Devils are Here

Manderley Forever by  Tatiana de Rosnay  

A biography of Daphne du Maurier. A glimpse into the life of the famous author. If you are a Rebecca fan you will enjoy.

Manderley Forever

The Dutch House by Ann Patchett

Loved this book. I listened to it and it was narrated by Tom Hanks which was delighful to listen to. The story explores the indelible bond between two siblings, the house of their childhood, and a past that will not let them go.

The Book of Lost Friends by Lisa Wingate

The dramatic story of three young women searching for family amid the destruction of the post–Civil War South, and of a modern-day teacher who learns of their story and its vital connection to her students’ lives.

The Book of Lost Friends

The Invisible Life of Addie Larue by V.E. Schwab

A story of what happens when you make a deal with the devil.

the invisible life of addie larue

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2019 Book List

Sharing my Best Books of the Year, all the books I’ve read and loved.  As always, I’d love for you to leave me a comment and let me know what you have been reading.

I have always loved reading, one of my favorite childhood memories is going to the library each Saturday with my mom. I remember having the goal to read every book in the library! If only that were possible.  My favorite genre is historical fiction and I love a good murder mystery, especially if it is set in England or French Quebec! 

The Clockmaker’s Daughter by Kate Morton

Kate Morton is one of my favorite authors and I have read all her books.  Although this was not my favorite book of hers it was a good read.  The story takes place in 1862 and 150 years later and involves a murder, mystery,thievery,  art, love and loss.

Next Year in Havana by Chanel Cleeton

I didn’t know much about the story and history of Cuba so I really enjoyed this historical fictional account and story of Cuba in 1958 and current day.  An interesting story of a woman heads to Cuba to uncover and discover her family history and story.

Girl Wash Your Face by Rachel Hollis

Had to see what all the fuss was about.  My daughters had been reading it and I’d seen it all over social media.  Even at my age (ha ha), I enjoyed  Rachel’s insight, energy and encouragement.

The Tattooist of Auschwitz by Heather Morris

One of my favorite books of the year.  Based on a true story of the man who tattooed the arms of thousands of prisoners.  It is a tale of hope, courage and a beautiful love story.

Kingdom of the Blind by Louise Penny

I am a big fan of Louise Penny and her Inspector Gamache series.  I have a slight crush on the Inspector and want to move to his home town of Three Pines.  Another delightful murder mystery! (some language)

Being Mortal by Atul Gawande

This was a book club choice and a heavy but insightful read.  A book that everyone should read especially if you are dealing with aging parents.  This book shows how the ultimate goal is not a good death but a good life-all the way to the very end.

As Bright as Heaven  by Susan Meissner

I have read all of Susan Meissner’s stories.  This one was set in Philadelphia in 1918  during the Spanish Flu epidemic.  I had never read about this time period so enjoyed learning about it and also enjoyed the story of a mother and her daughters who find themselves in a harsh world where their resolve to survive is strengthened.

The Gown by Jennifer Robson

The story of the making of Queen Elizabeth’s wedding gown and the women who made it was a delight.  The seamstress in me especially enjoyed this book.  If you are a fan of the TV series, The Crown, you will love this book!

The German Girl by Armando Lucas Correa

Set in 1939 a young girl and her family flee Germany arriving in Cuba on the steamship St. Louis.  What at first seems like their salvation becomes their doom.

Home for Unwanted Girls by Joanna Goodman

The story of a young unwed mother who is forcibly separated from her daughter at birth and the lengths to which they go to find each other.

The Golden Tresses of the Dead by Alan Bradley

I am a big fan of Miss Flavia de Luce, not your normal 12 year old.  This story begins when they find a finger in the wedding cake and of course leave it to Flavia to solve the mystery!

Educated by Tara Westover

Another of our book club reads.  I loved this book and discovered that it lived up to all it’s hype. I was fascinated with this true story and memoir of a young girl who is kept out of school, raised by a survivalist family and she goes on to earn a PhD from Cambridge University.

The Paris Seamstress by Natasha Lester

Set in 1940 and present day it is the story of a young seamstress who is forced to flee everything she’s ever known. She’s bound for New York City with her signature gold dress, a few francs, and a dream: to make her mark on the world of fashion.  In present day, the granddaughter sets out to discover her grandmother’s story.  A story of tragedy, heartbreak and family secrets.

The Huntress by Kate Quinn

I loved this book!  The story of Nazi hunters and their hunt to a Nazi murderess known as the Huntress. The story deals with  the consequences of war on individual lives, and the price we pay to seek justice and truth.

Where the Crawdads Sing by Delia Owens

Another book club read and one I had heard so many people talk about.  A beautifully written story of the “Marsh Girl.” A heartbreaking coming-of-age story, and a surprising tale of possible murder.

The Lost Girls of Paris by Pam Jenoff

I love any story set in Paris and this one is the story of  friendship, and the courage of three women who were part of a ring of female secret agents during WWII.  Based on extensive research it is a story of sisterhood and the great strength of women to survive in the hardest of circumstances.

Lost Roses by Martha Hall Kelley

The prequel to Lilac Girls, a book I absolutely loved. A book I enjoyed so much I went and visited the Bellamy Ferriday Home.  Although I didn’t love this book as much it was definitely worth reading.  The story of what happened before Lilac Girls.  A story of the power of friendship.

The Daughter’s Tale by Armando Lucas Correa

This is the sequel to The German Girl which I read earlier in the year.  Based on true events, The Daughter’s Tale chronicles one of the most harrowing atrocities perpetrated by the Nazis during the war. Heartbreaking and immersive, it is a beautifully crafted family saga of love, survival, and redemption.

We Were the Lucky Ones by Georgia Hunter

Inspired by the incredible true story of one Jewish family separated at the start of World War II, determined to survive – and to reunite – a tribute to the triumph of hope and love against all odds.

 Becoming Mrs Lewis by Patti Callahan

The story of one of the greatest loves of  modern times, an unlikely friendship turned true love between Joy Davidman and C. S. Lewis, that tests the bounds of faith and radically alters both of their lives.

Mistress of the Ritz by Melanie Benjamin

A  novel based on the story of the extraordinary real-life American woman who secretly worked for the French Resistance during World War II – while playing hostess to the invading Germans at the iconic Hôtel Ritz in Paris.

Before We Were Yours by Lisa Wingate

Based on one of America’s most notorious real-life scandals – in which Georgia Tann, director of a Memphis-based adoption organization, kidnapped and sold poor children to wealthy families all over the country.  A wrenching but eventually uplifting tale- our heart never forgets where it belongs.

The Grand Sophy by Georgette Heyer

A Regency romance, the story of a witty, charming and unforgettable heroine.  One of my favorite Georgette Heyer novels.

A Better Man by Louise Penny

The most recent book in the Inspector Gamache series.  One of my favorite murder mystery series of all times.  I’ve read everyone and hope they never stop!! (some language)

There you have it, my 2019 Book List.  So many good ones that it is hard for me to pick a favorite.  I think if I had to pick one thought it would be Educated.  It is a book everyone should read.

My favorite part of putting this post together is the comments you leave of what you have been reading!  Please let me know.  I read many of the books you recommend!!

For other book recommendations check out all of my book lists.

Best Books 2018

The Clifton Chronicles by Jeffrey Archer – I spent the first part of the year reading the Clifton Chronicles series and really enjoyed it.  My husband read them before me and loved them too.  It is a family saga that takes place in England beginning with the outbreak of the Great War.  Each book leaves you anxious to start the next to see what has happened!  There are seven books in the series and you will be sorry when you’ve read the last one!

Glass Houses by Louise Penny – The most recent book in the Inspector Gamache series.  I have read all the others and was so excited for this one to come out!  You will end up with a crush on Inspector Gamache like me!

Radium Girls by Kate Moore.  This was a fascinating true story about a group of woman who worked in the clock factories painting clock faces with radium laced paint.  It is a tragic story of what happened to them as a result of their exposure to radium on a daily basis.  It is history that I wasn’t aware of and although it is a tragic story it was definitely an interesting read.

Make Your Bed by William McRaven.  This is a quick little read that I gave to all the high graduates I knew this year.  It’s got a lot of great life lessons and can be read in an hour or so!

Grit, The Power of Passion by Angela Duckworth – I totally agree with this book that one of the main secrets to success and achievement is not talent, but a blend of passion and persistence, what she calls “grit”.  I think all parents of young children should definitely read this book, so much good info.  Everyone needs grit!

Big Potential: How Transforming the Pursuit of Success Raises Our Achievement, Happiness, and Well-Being by Shawn Achor.   More a business book I think everyone can benefit from it.  I love the philosophy that success and happiness are not competitive sports and that by helping others be better we also improve.

Daring Greatly by Brene Brown.  This was a reread for me and a must read for everyone if you haven’t read it.

Essentialism by Greg McKowan.  This was also a reread for me because I needed a refresh on the topic.  Feeling overwhelmed, overcommitted, or overworked?  This book is for you.

The Alice Network by Kate Quinn  The story is set in two different eras, during the Great War and then another story line that takes place during post WWII.  The two stories alternate chapters so you have to pay attention.  It is the story of the British spy network – the “Alice Network” -operating in German-occupied northwestern France during the Great War.  Really enjoyed this one!

 I was Anastasia by Ariel Lawhon.   Another historical fiction read about a part of history I wasn’t that familiar with, the story of the mysterious lives of  Russian princess Anastasia Romanov and Anna Anderson.  Anna Anderson spent 50 years trying to convince the world she was Anastasia Romanov.

Under the Scarlet Sky by Mark Sullivan.  This book is the story of WWII in Italy, the true story of Pino Lella who becomes a spy against the Germans while working for one of the German high command.  If you are a fan of  All the Light We Cannot See, The Nightingale, and Unbroken you will enjoy this book.

The Little Book Hyggee by Meik Wiking  Hyggee (hoo-ga) is all the rage, the Danish art of “Comfy.”  After reading the book to see what it was all about I realized I’ve been Living Hyggee for years!  Hyggee is a sense of comfort, togetherness, and well-being. “Hygge is about an atmosphere and an experience,” Wiking explains. “It is about being with the people we love. A feeling of home. A feeling that we are safe.”

The Residence:Inside the Private World of the White House  by Kate Anderson Brower.  This was a book club read.   It is an intimate account of the service staff of the White House, from the Kennedys to the Obamas.  Lots of interesting stories!

Best Books 2017

The Bookshop on the Corner by Jenny Colgan is a fun read for all book lovers or anyone who has ever dreamed of owning their own bookshop.   Nina has a gift for finding the perfect book for all of her customers.  She moves to a sleepy little village, buys a van and turns it into a bookshop – sounds pretty dreamy to me!  Of course there is a little romance involved too.

A Man  Called Ove by Fredrik Backman is a delightful story of an old curmudgeon.  A cranky old man who really has a story to tell.  It is a true case of “You can’t love someone until you know his story.”  Once you know Ove’s story, you can’t help but love him!  It is one of those stories that shows you what an impact one life can have on many others.

Thrice the Brinded Cat Hath Mew’d by Alan Bradley is another Flavia de Luce book.  The delightful story of 12 year old Flavia who is headed home after being kicked out of boarding school.  She returns home to find another murder to solve, something that seems to always excite and lift Flavia’s spirits!

The Wednesday Wars by Gary D. Schmidt is a YA book and recommended by a friend who read it in her book group.  I didn’t love it but I think it has a lot of value and a good message for a younger reader. Holling Hoodhood is an endearing character and is trying to navigate the journey of a 7th grade adolescent.

Radio Girls by Sarah Jane Stratford is a historical fiction book based on the story of the men and women of the BBC after WWI.  This is definitely the genre and time period  I enjoy most and I really liked this book.  I watch a lot of BBC so it was interesting to learn the history of it.

Station Eleven by Emily St. John is not my typical genre.  It is a “end of the world”/apocalyptic type book.  A flu epidemic basically wipes out most of known civilization and the book is the story of those that survive. It is a story of how the apocalypse affects humanity and civilization rather than the details of the apocalypse.  The story involves a traveling symphony, “a ragtag band of musicians and actors who roam what’s left of the Midwest, playing classical music and performing Shakespeare. The ability to create and appreciate art, they believe, is essential to our humanity. It’s what takes us beyond mere survival and makes us something more than animals.”  The story gives you plenty to think about.

The Readers of Broken Wheel Recommend by Katarina Bivald is another book for all book lovers!  It is a heartwhelming story of how books can transform lives. Books can change us and connect us.  This is the story of Amy, a book lover, who arrives from Sweden to visit a book loving pen pal and friend who has passed away before she arrives. Amy decides to stay and open a bookstore in this little, dying town.  She and the town end up transformed by this decision.

Commonwealth by Ann Patchett was not a favorite.  It is the story of the dissolution of two marriages and the joining of two families. There are a lot of characters and the story line jumps all over the place. The story is about unhappy people and families and honestly I found no redeeming value in the story. (language)

When Breath Becomes Air by Paul Kalanithi is everything Commonwealth was not.   It is a life changing book that will change the way you look at life, the way you live your life.  A memoir, it is written by a young doctor as he faces terminal cancer and the end of his life.  He actually passes away before finishing the book and his wife finishes it for him.  It is his experience as a doctor and as a patient. An inspiring book as he shares his perspectives on life and on death, it is devastating and beautiful.

The Whole Towns Talking by Fannie Flagg.  I have always been a fan of Fannie Flagg but this book was a disappointment.  It lacked the usual Fannie humor I enjoy and I found the story line and the characters to be lacking and just plain silly.  As I write this review six months later, I’m having a hard time even remembering what the story was about. Don’t bother.

Tale of Two Cities by Charles Dickens is of course a classic.  I try to reread a classic each year and this was my choice this year.  The story is set in London and Paris before the French Revolution and is one of love, danger, war, drama, romance and just about everything else.  It is worth reading just for the historical aspect of the book.  It is a definite read if you have never read it and even if you have, it is definitely worth a reread.

Chilbury Ladies Choir by Jennifer Ryan was a perfect Book Club read for the summer.  It is historical fiction set in England when all the men have been called to World War II.  The women come together and form a Ladies Choir.  We see the strength of women and what they can do when they work together and how they kept the home fires burning.  I found it to be a charming story with a nice array of characters – some you will love and some you won’t!

Pope Joan by Donna Woolfolk Cross was my choice for book club this month.  I found it a fascinating read and although it is “fiction” the possibility that it really happened made for great reading.  The legend of Pope Joan, that there was actually a female pope, has been around since the Dark Ages and one that won’t go away.  We had a great discussion about women, the rights of women through the ages and across the world at book club.  A great read!

Hillbilly Elegy: A Memoir of a Family and Culture in Crisis  by  JD Vance is not an easy read.  It is a story of a culture in crisis and looks at the struggles of the poor White Americans, specifically those of Kentucky’s Appalachia region.   It was a look into a culture I honesty didn’t know much about and though difficult to understand it is very eye opening.  After starting the book I talked with a niece of mine who is from that area and whose family comes from that culture and she validated the book.  It is the story of Mr. Vance and his rise above and out of the poor white working class.  To be honest, I did not finish the book but found what I read to be informative and fascinating to learn of an American culture I knew nothing about.

Salt to the Sea by Ruta Sepetys  is historical fiction but is a part of history I hadn’t read about before.  It is about the tragic story of Wilhelm Gustloff German, a civil population evacuation liner, torpedoed by Russian submarine in January of 1945.  The story follows four main characters including a Polish girl, a Lithuanian nurse trying to lead others to safety, a German naval man and Florian, who carries a secret with him.  If you are a fan of All The Light We Cannot See you will enjoy this book.

The Women in the Castle by Jessica Shattuck is surprise, surprise, historical fiction!  I really enjoyed this read.  It is the story of WWII widows whose lives become intertwined.  It is a fresh and different perspective of a period of history I have read a lot about.  A story of love, survival and ultimately forgiveness.

Magpie Murders by Anthony Horowitz was a favorite of mine this year!  I am a total sucker for a good British murder mystery and this is a good one!  A friend at book club highly recommended it and I loved it.  It’s a classic Agatha Christie style murder with a current modern twist!    You’ll never guess who done it!

Kiss Carlos by Adriana Trigiani.  I’ve been a fan of Trigiani’s for years and I think I have read everything she has written.  While this wasn’t my favorite of her books I definitely enjoyed it.  Is a story of love, loyalty and creativity! An American Italian family and all the craziness that comes with that.

America’s First Daughter by Stephanie Dray was a great way to end the year! Drawing on thousands of letters, this is the untold story of Thomas Jefferson’s oldest daughter, her relationship with her father and all she did and sacrificed to protect her father and his reputation.  I found it a fascinating read.

Best Books 2016

Secrets of a Charmed Life by Susan Meissner was my book club read for the month.  I read the book back in September 2015 and I suggested to my book club that we read it.  I presented the book to the book club and loved reading it the second time just as much as I did the first time.  You can see my initial review of it here.

Bury Your Dead by Louise Penny is another book in the Inspector Gamache series.  I have totally fallen in love with this series and I am going to be so sad when I have read them all. It takes place in French Quebec and is a murder mystery series that takes place in the charming village of Three Pines.  It has a fun and entertaining cast of characters. (some language)

The Lake House by Kate Morton is another book by one of my favorite authors.  I have read all that Kate has written and loved them all.  This book was no exception.  One mid-summer’s night a baby disappears without a trace. Decades later the story continues as a curious young detective sets out to solve the unsolved mystery.

Circling the Sun by Paula McLain is a book by the same author of The Paris Wife which I really enjoyed.  I didn’t like this book as much as The Paris Wife but it was still an interesting read. A piece of historical fiction that tells the story of Beryl Markham, a record-setting aviator who lived in colonial Kenya in 1920.  She was a woman ahead of her time and the book details her many adventures and loves.

The Warden by Andrew Trollope was a new author to me.  This Victorian Era  book is part  the Barestshire series and is the story of 1855  English ecclesiastical life, written in the 1850’s. If you are a Pride & Prejudice fan I think you will enjoy this series too.  The author has a unique style and sense of humor.  This first book in the series is the story of a kindly clergyman who becomes the subject of a scandalous tabloid.

The Beautiful Mystery by Louise Penny, another Inspector Gamache book.  Did I mention how much I enjoy this series….only two more books to go 😦  (some language)

Dissolution by CJ Sansom is our book club choice for this month.  I loved it.  It is a murder mystery that takes place in Tudor England, one of my favorite time periods to read about. This is the first book in the Matthew Shardlake Tudor Mystery series. The book takes place during the time when King Henry VIII is dismantling the monasteries and a murder takes place in one of the monasteries and Matthew Shardlake, a hunchback lawyer,  is sent by Thomas Cromwell to figure things out!  I am currently reading the second one in the serires.

After You by Jojo Moyes is the sequel to Me Before You.  Can’t say I loved this book but it is worth reading if you read the first one. The book deals with the aftermath of Will’s death and how Lou does and doesn’t deal with it. I preferred the Lou in the first book.  Definitely read Me Before You first.  I have read Moyes other work – The Girl You Left Behind and enjoyed it more.

The Nature of the Beast by Louise Penny is another one of my much loved Inspector Gamache series of murder mysteries that take place in French Quebec in a quaint, charming fictional village of Three Pines.  Although not my favorite of the series, I always love being transported to Three Pines and want to move there.  This is currently the last book in the series but there is another coming out in August of this year! (language)

The 12 Week Year  by Brian Moran is non fiction and I read this with a group of bloggers that I network with.  We read it alongside each other and held each other accountable which is a great way to read this book.  The concept revolves around defining your year into 12 week segments and setting and accomplishing your goals within that time frame. I’ve read a lot of “goal setting” books and this one was really nothing earth shatteringly new but worth a read if you are looking for a slightly new approach to goal setting and some inspiration.

The Long Way Home by Louise Penny.  So I thought I had read the current last book in the Inspector Gamache series but then I realilzed I had skipped two – I was so excited!  I didn’t have to part ways with my friends in Three Pines yet. (language)

The Husband’s Secret by Leanne Moriarty is one I had seen a lot of people recommend.  I didn’t love it.  In this story, a woman discovers a letter her husband has written to be opened on the event of his death, a letter that contains a deep dark secret.  It is the story of how this secret effects a group of women when his wife reads it before his death. I am not a fan of books that glorify infidelity and this is one of them.

Dark Fire by CJ Sansom is the second book in the Matthew Shardlake series.  It is another Tudor murder mystery with the hunchback attorney Matthew Shardlake.   The books take place in the 1500’s during the reign of King Henry VIII and the dark and superstitious world that existed.  There is lots of interesting history woven in amongst the murder mystery.  If you are a mystery fan and a historical fiction fan you will enjoy this book.

Stars over Sunset Boulevard by Susan Meissner is the same author who wrote one of my favorite books I read last year, Secrets of a Charmed Life.  See my review here.   I enjoyed this book just as much as Secrets.  This story takes place in Hollywood during the 1930’s while Gone with the Wind is being filmed.  Gone with the Wind is one of my favorite all time movies.  It is a fictionalized story of two young girls who are working at the studio where the movie is being filmed.  I love how the story of the filming of the movie is woven into the story plot.  It is a story of friendship and how those friendships shape our lives.

How the Light Gets in by Louise Penny is another one of the Inspector Gamache books I skipped over.  Such a pleasant surprise.

The Nest by Cynthia D’Aprix Sweeney is a book I had high expectations for.  I had seen it all over the place, people reading it in their book clubs, recommending it etc.  My expectations were not met and it was a disappointing read for me.  I should have known better when the first scene in the book deals with a sexual encounter in a car.  The story is of a group of siblings who are to receive an inheritance (the nest) and due to some indiscretions and resulting lawsuit of one of the siblings the nest is used to pay his legal expenses.  The story had some strange twists and turns and I guess it’s just not my kind of book and I probably should have just stopped reading but I kept thinking it was going to get better. (sex and language)

A Girl Named Zippy by Haven Kimmel.  This is the second time I have read this book.  This time it was for book club and I think I enjoyed it more the second time.  It is a memoir of a girl born in the sixties in the midwest and since I am a girl born in the 60’s in the midwest I could totally relate to so many things!  The book is full of humor and wit.    If you enjoy it, check out the sequel, She Got up Off the Couch.

Soveriegn by CJ Sansom.  The third book in the Matthew Shardlake Mysteries.  Set in Tudor England, hunchback attorney, Matthew Shardlake, sets off to solve yet another murder mystery.  These books take care of both my fascination with the Tudor era and a good murder mystery!

A Fall of Marigolds by Susan Meissner.  I have a new author to add to my list of favorites.  I am loving Susan Meissner and her books.  This one takes place on Ellis Island outside of New York City in 1911 after the historic Triangle Shirtwaist Fire in NYC. As with her other books, the storyline moves back and forth between present day and the past and I love to watch how the stories come together.

Vinegar Girl by Anne Tyler.  I have been reading Anne Tyler books since she wrote her first one.  This wasn’t one of my favorites but still a good read.  It is Tyler’s version of Shakespeare’s Taming of the Shrew.

The Secret Language of Stones by  MJ Rose.  (some language)  This story is set in Paris during WWI in a jewelry store.  A young jeweler learns about love, passion, and her own healing powers in this romantic ghost/love story.    The story is a mixture of historic fiction, romance and mysticism.

The Forgetting Time  by Sharon Guskin (some language)  It took me  a bit to get into this story but I ended up enjoying it.  It deals with the questions of what happens after we die?   What happens before we are born?  The story of a young boy who has memories of a previous life who wants to return to it and a professor of psychology suffering from aphasia who is losing his memories.  It gives you some food for thought about previous lives, reincarnation etc.

Lilac Girls  by Martha Hall Kelly.  I loved this book although there were times when it was hard to read because of the horrible things that happened in the camp, it is a powerful story.  The story takes place during WWII and revolves around Ravensbruck, an all female concentration camp.  It is a true story and it follows three women, one American socialite, a Polish girl imprisoned at Ravensbruck and a German female doctor.   I loved it so much that on my next trip to NYC I’m taking a trip over to Connecticut to visit the home of Caroline Ferriday and her lilac gardens.

The Woman in Cabin 10  by Ruth Ware  (language) A murder mystery set on a cruise ship, this book has been on the best sellers list lately but I’m not quite sure why.  I pushed my way through the book but found to it be very lackluster.

Everyone Brave is Forgiven  by Chris Cleave.  This book is set in London during the Blitz of WWII.  The story is a perfect wartime love story inspired by the real-life love letters between the author’s grandparents.

The Wright Brothers by David McCullough.  This was a book club read that I’m not sure I would have read otherwise.  My husband is a big David McCullough fan and has read most of his historical books.  I found the book interesting but find that they read a little bit more like a text book than a novel.  If you love history and details then I highly recommend!

A Land More Kind Than Home by Wiley Cash .  This is the author’s first book and it is set in the hills of North Carolina, it is the story of an autistic boy, his bond with his brother and his death.   It is the story of faith and belief gone wrong, a community that follows a false prophet even when his methods lead to the deaths of members of their community.

Steal the Show by Michael Port.  This book is non fiction. If you do any kind of public speaking, presentations etc. I highly recommend it but it’s about so much more than just public speaking. You’ll learn how to express yourself authentically, be more creative and increase your confidence in all aspects of life. My husband said he even learned something that would help in our relationship.

Girl Waits With Gun by Amy Stewart.  This book is the true story of one of the country’s first female deputy sheriffs written using genealogical records, newspaper articles, and court documents. Excerpts from actual letters are used, and all the newspaper headlines throughout the book are real.  This book takes place in 1915 and Constance, the main character, is a maverick of her time.  I look forward to reading the next book in the Kopp Sisters Novel series.

The Fifth Avenue Artists Society by Joy Callaway. The story takes place in the Bronx of New York in 1891 among the artistic/literary/musical society of the city in the Gilded Age.  I thought this review on Amazon described it perfectly…“The creative sisterhood of Little Women, the social scandal of Edith Wharton and the courtship mishaps of Jane Austen. “

The One In a Million Boy by Monica Wood.  This is the story of a 104 year old woman and the young boy scout assigned to help her around her house.  It is a friendship that touches not only the boy but his parents when the young boy unexpectedly dies and his father takes over his assignment with the old woman.

Best Books 2015

The Storied Life of A.J. Fikry by Gabrielle Zevin was a book recommendation from one of you.  This story shares the importance of connecting with books and with people. A.J. Fikry is the owner of a small, independent bookstore on the small Alice Island in the Northeast.  He is cynical, cranky, and depressed and with good reason.  Read the book to find out what changes him.  If you are a book lover you will

Plain and Simple by Sue Bender is one of those books I have read more than once.  I will admit to a secret fascination with the Amish and a secret desire to live in an Amish community.  The author Sue Bender had the same dream and she lived it.  This story chronicles Sue’s experience of living in an Amish community where she asks the question, “Is there another way to lead a good life?”  I have read it twice and will read it many more times.

Mary, Martha and Me by Camille Fronk Olson is a book I read in preparation for a presentation I gave to a group of women at church.  I have always loved the story of Mary and Martha and have always felt Martha got a bad rap.  I love the way Olson presents the story and the lessons we can learn from both Mary and Martha.

Ten Things I Learned from Bill Porter by  Shelly Brady.   It is a sweet, endearing and inspirational story of Bill Porter, a man from Portland, Oregon, who is a Watkins door to door salesman with cerebral palsy.  Shelly Brady, the author came and spoke to our book club and told of her experiences of working for and taking care of Bill.  The book is short and a very quick read.  It will leave you motivated to want to be a better person.  There is also a movie called Door to Door which is the story of Bill which is a delightful movie.  I highly recommend the movie.

All the Light We Cannot See by Anthony Doerr is a book I expected to love after all the wonderful things and glowing reviews I had heard about it.  I liked it, but I didn’t love it.  I think the mistake I made was listening to it on CD.  This is a book that should be read.  It flashes back and forth between two time periods and two different characters and that is difficult to track when listening instead of reading.  It is the story of a young orphaned German boy and a blind young French girl during WWII time period.  Two separate lives, two different countries but their lives intertwine. I highly recommended reading it, not listening to it.  I think I may need to give it another chance and read it.

The Invisible Girls by Sarah Thebarge is a memoir.  This was a book club selection and I wasn’t excited about reading it but I am so glad I did.  I ended up really liking it.  It is the story of a Portland woman who meets a woman from Somalia who had been abandoned by her husband and her small daughters on a Portland MAX train one day. Sarah “adopts” this family and helps them learn to survive on their own story.  Sarah has her own story that is intertwined throughout the book.  The importance of being aware of and connecting with others and not allowing anyone, including ourselves to become “invisible” is an important message of the book.

First Frost by Sarah Addison Allen.   I have read all of Allen’s books and have loved them all!  I loved First Frost too.  Her books are always a wonderful combination of love, fantasy, and food.  Be sure and read Garden Spells first for the beginning of the story of the Waverley family ten years earlier

The Dressmaker of Khair Khana by Gayle Tzemach Lemmon is a remarkable true story.   It is the story of some remarkable women of Afghanistan in the wake of the Taliban’s fearful rise to power.  Their story of strength, courage and fortitude.  How they reinvent themselves in order to take care of and save their family.  A truly inspiring story.  They do not become victims but become the backbone of their family and their country.  A story of war and a story of sisterhood.

Me Before You by Jojo Moyes was recommended by one of you and I liked it, didn’t love it.  It is by the same author of another book I read, The Girl You Left Behind which I enjoyed more than this one.  It is the story of Louisa, who has lived in the same English village her entire life.  She becomes the caretaker of a parapalegic and her life and view of life change.  It deals with the subject of “right to die” and there is some language.

Summer at Tiffany by Marjorie Hart It is a delightful and quick read.  It is a memoir of two young girls who go to live in NYC for the summer and both get jobs as the first female employees at Tiffanys in 1945.  This summer becomes a magical time in the girls lives and  they get to meet Judy Garland, be in Times Squares on VJ Day and lots of other once in a life time experiences.

A Chimney Sweepers Come to Dust by Alan Bradley is another one of the Flavia de Luce Novels which I am pretty much addicted too.  This is the newest one in the series and I have read and loved all the rest.  A delightful continuation of the story of young Flavia and her ability to find trouble (murder) wherever she goes.  Even when she is away at boarding school!

Carrot Cake Murder by Joanne Fluke was not a favorite.  I listened to it on CD and if I had something else to listen to I would have probably not finished the book but since I had nothing else to listen too I plugged through it. It is a basic, run of the mill murder with really nothing interesting, intriguing or reason to keep reading other than it’s all you have to read!

Maisie Dobbs by Jacqueline Winspear  This is the first in the series of female investigator Maisie Dobbs.  The story takes place in London in 1929 when female investigators were not the norm. Reads more like a novel than a mystery.  I have the next one in the series on my To Read list.

The Rosie Effect by Graeme Simsion picks up where The Rosie Project left off.  It is the continuing story of Don Tillman,  a professor who has Asperger’s and the story of his marriage and what happens when he unexpectedly learns he is to be a father.  Liked but didn’t love but since I had read the first one I decided to read this one too.  Some language.

The Boys in the Boat by Daniel James Brown was highly recommended by my husband.  I loved it. It is a piece of non fiction that reads just like a novel.  It is the true story of Nine Americans from University of Washington and their quest as a men’s rowing team to win the 1936 Olympics in Berlin.  The story is of remarkable achievement as these young men overcome many obstacles through determination, hard work and teamwork  to reach their goal.

Lydia Cassatt Reading the Morning Paper by Harriet Scott Chessman was a recommendation from my mom.  She knew I had always enjoyed the artwork of  Impressionist painter, Mary Cassatt and she thought I would enjoy the book too.  It is a sweet, quick read and is the behind the scenes story to Mary’s paintings.  Her dying sister Lydia was her model for many of them and the book tells Lydia’s story.

The Life Changing Magic Of Tidying Up by Marie Kondo did not change my life but it did help me clean out my closet.  This book is all the rage now and I did find the idea and concept of the book interesting and it helped me to look at all my stuff differently! Does it bring me joy?  I did a massive clean out of my closet after reading it and although I haven’t tackled the rest of my house, I am thinking about it.

The Nightingale by  Kristin Hannah was recommended to me by a lot of people and I loved it.  It is historical fiction or rather fiction based on history and takes place in one of my favorite places – France during one of my favorite times to read about, WWII.  This book tells the story of the “women’s war”, what life was like for the women left behind.  I showcases the human spirit and the durability of women.

The One Thing by Gary Keller was one of the non-fiction books I read this quarter. This book has great ideas and tips on how to be more productive and the importance on discovering and focusing in on the one thing at a time.  I needed this one!

Season of Storms by Susannah Kearsley who is one of my all time favorite authors.  I have read everything she has written!  If you are a fan of historical fiction you must read her books!   I loved  the book as much as all the others.  This one takes place in Italy and is the perfect combination of myster and romance.

The Miracle Morning by Hal Elrod is another non fiction pick.  Promising to transform your life if you follow it’s principles this book teaches you how to  wake up each day with more ENERGY, MOTIVATION, and FOCUS to take your life to the next level if you follow it’s teachings.  I enjoyed the book and am a firm believer in the power a miracle morning can have and the difference it can make.  I just need to be better at setting that alarm and getting up early!!

The Spool of Blue Thread by Ann Tyler is the author’s newest book.  It’s not my favorite book the author has written.    This story is about a family, their  home and all the emotion and quirkyness that comes with a family.

Odd Thomas by Dean Koontz lives up to it’s name – it is odd.  This book was chosen by our book club and not one I would have read on my own or even been aware of!   This is a story of a man named Odd Thomas and he is odd!  Odd is a short order cook in a small town who sees dead people, including Elvis Presley and uses his ability to help the local police.  The book is the first in a series of Odd Thomas books.

At the Water’s Edge by Sara Gruen is written by the same author as Water for Elephants  It is a story that takes place at the end of WWII in the Scottish Highlands where Maddie, her husband and his friend set out to find the Loch Ness Monster.  Maddies discovers another world she didn’t imagine, finds true love and friendship and the dark forces around her.

A Desperate Fortune by Susanna Kearsley  is Susanna Kearsley newest book.  She combines contemporary and historical fiction once again along with romance and intrigue.  The perfect combination as codebreaker Sara Thomas heads to Paris to crack the code of a 300 year old journal.

Paper Love by Sarah Wildman    This is a true story, the story of a woman who goes looking for the true story of her grandfather and a girl he left behind in Vienna after finding some old letters of her grandfathers. There is lots of information, history and facts about what life was really like for Jews in Vienna during this period.  At times it read more like a text book than a novel but you will be fascinated and appalled.

Euphoria by Lily King is loosely based on the life story of anthropologist Margaret Mead.   It isi the story of three young, gifted anthropologists of the ‘30’s caught in a passionate love triangle that threatens their bonds, their careers, and, ultimately, their lives.

The Life Intended by Kristin Harmel leaves you with things to think about.  Are you living the life you thought you were intended to live and what happens when life happens and you aren’t living the life you intended to live?  It is a story of finding happiness and learning to deal with grief and guilt.

Secrets of a Charmed Life by Susan Meissner takes place during The Blitz in London, a time period I haven’t read much about.  It is a beautiful story and one that leaves you asking yourself  “What if?”  What if you had made a different choice or decision, how would that have changed things.  A story of love, loss and sacrifice.  I am presenting this book to my book club in January.

Still Life by Louise Penny is the first in a delightful new murder mystery series I was recommended.  The series takes place in French Quebec, Canada in the quaint village of Three Pines.  A place you will totally want to move after you read the first book, despite the fact that people are murdered there.  The main character, Cheif Inspector Gamache is delightful and you love him from the beginning.   He is a man of integrity and quiet courage and you will fall in love with all the fun and quirky cast of characters that live in Three Pines.  (There is some language)

Fatal Grace by Louise Penny is the second in the Chief Inspector Gamache series,  I am making my way through all of them and loving them.  If you have ever watched Midsomer Murders on BBC you will love this series too.

Birds of a Feather by Jacqueline Winspear.  This is the second book in the Maisie Dobbs series.  I reviewed the first one in May.  This is a delightful series of an intelligent and resourceful female detective in London set in the 1930’s.

Still Life by  Louise Penny… more Inspector Gamache. I’m on a roll.

A Rule Against Murder by Louise Penny

The Cruelest Month by Louise Penny

What She Left Behind by Ellen Marie Wiseman deals with two parallel story lines.  Two different young women – born 60 years apart.  The story deals with mental illness, love, loss and redemption with some surprises thrown in at the end.

Beautiful Ruins by Jess Walter is the story of an almost-love affair that begins on the Italian coast in 1962…and is rekindled in Hollywood fifty years later. Fun historical characters like Elizabeth Taylor and Richard Burton are part of the story line.

The Brutal Telling by Louise Penny.  I love a good series and I love when there are more than just a couple of books in the series.  Still going strong with Inspector Gamache.

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It is possible to survive and even thrive in an empty nest!

Empty Nest Travel Ideas

I have had several conversations with people recently about having an empty nest.  They don’t have an empty nest yet, but they were expressing concerns about becoming empty nesters.  They had a sense of dread about it, worried that life is pretty much over when the kids leave the nest.  I totally get this.  You pour so much of your energy, your life, your happiness into your children and then they leave you! (That really is a good thing, that they leave you!!) But you can be left feeling empty and alone.

Well, I’ve had a little practice at this empty nest thing for a few years now and though it was a bit of a rough start (and yes there were tears), Jim and I have really learned how to embrace it and make the most of it.  I love it when I hear people say, “You make being an empty nester look so fun!”  Well, it is fun!  Being a parent and having a house full of children was fun too, but we have learned to embrace the empty nest and make the most of this phase of our life.  Today I am excited to partner with Tracfone to share with you a few ideas on how we have embraced being empty nesters and created new moments that matter.

Use Your Smartphone to Plan Your Travel

One of the things that we have been able to do more of since having an empty nest is travel.  This is especially true since our children have all graduated from college and we no longer have the expense of helping support college students!  Not only is there a little bit more money for travel, but we also have more time. Time that is ours to decide what to do with.  We are no longer bound by the yearly school calendar, having to schedule our travel around spring and summer breaks!

Suitcase ready for empty nester trip

When planning our trips, we divide up the responsibility. I usually figure out the itinerary, where we are going to stay and eat, and my husband reads up on the history of the area. With my smartphone, I can easily find our dream hotels and top restaurants from the palm of my hand, thanks to Tracfone’s Unbeatable Nationwide Coverage™ on America’s largest and most dependable network.

Explore Where You Live

My husband and I have loved being able to explore right where we live.  We are lucky enough to live in the beautiful Pacific Northwest.  And now that we don’t have ball games or practices every Saturday, we are able to get out and explore.  We love hiking and kayaking in nearby areas and being a tourist in our own city.  One of our favorite things to do is try a new restaurant for breakfast on Saturday mornings each week.  We love to invite our fellow empty nest friends to join us on our adventures!

empty nesters kayaking

Road Trips

Taking road trips is another fun and economical way to travel as empty nesters.  Road trips were always a bit more of an ordeal and something to dread with kids, but now that it is just the two of us, we love to jump in the car and hit the road.  A few years ago we  drove up the California coast enjoying the beauty of Highway 101.  We ended the trip with a visit to one of our children who lives near the Bay area.

California Coast Empty Nester trip

Visit Your Kids

I often feel sorry for myself because none of our children live locally with us, but there is a positive side to that too — we get to travel to some fun places to visit them! We have four children who currently live coast to coast, so it’s fun to include visits to them in some of our travels.  One of our daughters lives in New York City, so we’ve made many trips to visit her.  One of my goals was to visit NYC in all four seasons.  I think our visit at Thanksgiving was one of my favorites.

Macy's Day Parade

See the World

We have been lucky enough to include some international travel too – something we were never able to do when we had children at home.  Last year, we took a dream trip and cruised around Italy and the  Greek Isles, and our smartphones allowed us to capture all of our favorite moments .

Santorini, Greek Isles Cruise

Last year we also traveled to France.  A visit to Mt. St. Michel was on my bucket list and a trip to Normandy was on my husbands.  We were able to do both.  My husband read a lot about the war and D-Day and was able to share a lot of that with me as we toured the beaches and museums in Normandy. This year we are going on a Scandinavian Cruise, and Jim has been busy reading about the Vikings!

Mt. St. Michel

Stay in Touch and Share

Now that we have an empty nest, our children joke that they have to follow us on social media to know where we are.  Staying in touch with your adult children can be a bit of a challenge at first but so much fun!  One thing I quickly learned was I couldn’t just sit at home and wait for my children to call me.  I needed to call them–especially when they first go off to college.

Facetiming on cell phone

Some of your children will be better at communicating with you than others.  I have several children that call me on a regular, almost daily basis and then some that call once a week.  We did make the rule that everyone was required to call home on Sunday in order to stay in the will!  Of course, this was a bit of a joke, but I have to say all of my children call home on Sundays!

One of the best ways we stay connected as a family is having family text thread where we all share photos, videos, and thoughts on almost a daily basis.  It’s like a family scrapbook in a text!

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Selecting my 2019 Word of the Year is something I’ve been doing for almost ten years now.  I have found that my word usually finds me and that was the case this year too.

2019 word of the yeaer

I had actually been thinking of not choosing a 2019 Word of the Year. When a couple of my children asked me what my word was going to be I told them, I just wasn’t “feeling it.”  And then I received messages from several of you asking me if I had posted my Word of the Year yet.

I then realized I already had my word, and in fact I had had it for a while and had already been integrating it into my life the past few months.

How I Chose My 2019 Word of the Year

This past year I was in charge of a family history conference here in Portland, Oregon.  I have always had a love for family history and had developed a habit last year of working regularly on family history (See 2018 Word of the Year) . I spent a lot of time and prayer picking a theme/name for the conference and came up with the theme of CONNECT.  Through family history research we connect to those who came before us and also connect to those who come after us by preserving our photos, life stories etc.

TED Talk on Connection

I did a lot of research on the word connect and also connection in preparation for the conference.  I came across a TED Talk by  Johann Hari entitled “Everything you know about addiction is wrong.”  The talk is fascinating and although his focus was on people dealing addictions, his findings can apply to all of us.

He shares that we all have a natural and innate need to bond and connect.  It is when we don’t have anything or anyone to connect to that leads us to addiction, we will bond to something.  He also discusses how we are developing into one of the loneliest societies that has ever been, the average number of close friends Americans have has steadily decreased while the average square footage of their homes increases.  Social media and cell phones contribute to this lack of real, in person, connection.

Lack of Connection

I have experienced this in my own life.  I spend the majority of my day, alone, behind a computer working or in my kitchen.  Because I work from home I don’t have many connections with other people on a daily basis other than virtual ones.  Being an empty nester also contributes to my lack of daily connections.  As much as I love my husband, I have found that my daily interactions with him aren’t filling my need for connection in my life. There are days that I go to the grocery store, just so I can see another person.  I found that I definitely have a need for more connections in my life.

2019 Word of the Year

So my 2019 Word of the Year is:

2019 word of the year

How I plan to implement my Word of the Year:

My goal for 2019 is to have more connections in my life and to be more connected.  The last few months I have made more of an effort to invite people into our home (it’s a little easier during the holidays) but plan to continue to extend more hospitality to my friends and people I want to get to know better this coming year.  I will continue with the connections I am making in family history.  Make more of an effort to make eye connection with others as I am out and about, saying hi, talking to the cashier instead of being on my phone.

I want to reach out to some people I have lost contact with and renew those connections.  Connect  connect more spiritually this year and continue my commitment to connect each morning in scripture study.  I plan to connect more with my body and have joined a pilates studio where my goal is to workout 2-3 times a week.  Continue to help you connect with your family at the dinner table by offering weekly meal plans and delicious family friend recipes.  I’ve got a new meal plan in the works too that I’m excited about!

Making Connections

I am excited about my Word of the Year and will be sharing with you throughout the year some of the ways I am making more connections in my life.

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2018 Word of the Year

Every year I debate whether I am going to declare a Word of the Year and this year was no exception.  I had been thinking about my word for the last month and when I received emails from a few of you asking me what my word was I decided I better choose one and put it out there.

2018 word of the year

2017 was a good year but it was also a crazy busy year.  I did more traveling in 2017 than I think I ever have before.  I actually made this graphic to get a visual of how many different airports I was in!  All good things! Yes, there were a lot of trips to Utah!

2018 Word of the Year
2018 Word of the Year

A lot of this year was also spent finishing up my Holiday Slow Cooker Cookbook and preparing for it’s release – more good things!

One of the downsides to so many good things is that I stopped doing some “good” things I had been doing. I got out of the habit of my morning routine which included daily scripture reading, prayer, regular exercise, healthy eating, and the list goes on. I have always been a believer in good habits and the importance of them but when life gets crazy it’s easy to get out of the habit! So, if we change our habits (or lack thereof), we change our lives and I am ready for some change

2018 Word of the Year

If you haven’t already guessed it, my 2018 Word of the Year is HABITS. I’m getting back on the habit bandwagon! I’ve begun the year by studying the power of habits with Gretchen Rubin’s book “Better Than Before” and I have a few other books in my pile to read after that. Gretchen says that small, simple, consistent steps will get us anywhere we want to go.

Daily Habits

Now, lest you think 2017 was a total failure as far as habits are concerned I did have one habit victory. After attending Roots Tech (a family history conference) in February, I made a commitment to establish a new habit. To spend at least 30 minutes a day on family history using the Family Search website.  I can tell you that in seven months I never missed ONE SINGLE DAY until we traveled to Europe and I was on a cruise ship with no internet. When we got home I got back in the habit and have been going strong ever since. As a result, I have been able to locate hundreds of relatives! So, I know I can do this habit thing! Habits are simply Small Daily Choices!

I’ve set a lot of goals and attempted to start many different habits in my life time. I’ve done better on some than others but the family history habit is one I’ve got!

We had a quiet New Year’s Eve celebration this year due to sickness so I had a lot of time to think about and make a list of some different habits I want to master in 2018. I won’t bore you with the whole list but there are a couple I’ll share. I am a big believer in the power of the morning and for many years, when my children were little I would get up at 5:00 am and go through my morning routine (prayer, study, exercise). It’s amazing how much you can get done and how good your day will be when you start it the right way.

2018 Habits

So one of my top habits for this year is to get back into a morning routine.
For me that means, not getting on my phone as soon as I wake up but rather starting my day with reading scripture, general conference talks, prayer and some other motivational reading (right now it is Gretchen’s book and this book.)  I’ve also committed to walking 10,000 steps 6 days a week when I either walk with a friend or listen to motivational podcasts. Here is one of my favorites.  One other element I want to add in to my morning routine is meditation or mindfulness.

Drinking more water, eating less sugar and not eating after 7:00 pm are also on the habit list. (Three days down and going strong!) I know me and if I make the list too long I end up doing nothing so for this month I’m focusing on the habit of a morning routine, more water, more walking.  I’ll add in a few more habits next month.

In her book, Gretchen teaches that we all fall into one of four different kind of habit maker categories.  I am definitely an Obliger.  I easily meet outer expectations but resist inner expectations which means, if I make a commitment to someone else I keep it, I’m not as good at keeping commitments to myself.  So, in order for me to be a successful habit maker I need to share my goals/habits with others.  Like I just did above!

I’ll be sharing more about some of the other habits I’m working on throughout the year.  Wish me luck!

If you have picked a Word of the Year I’d love to hear what it is!  If you need help picking a word of the year check out this post.

Here are some of the books I am reading to help me with my Word of the Year:Better Than Before by Gretchen Rubin The Morning Miracle by Hal Elrod Hello Mornings by Kat Lee.

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Cookbook Shoot

I may have mentioned a time or two that I have been working on a new slow cooker cookbook the last 4-5 months.  There will be 100 new slow cooker recipes in the cookbook and I am so excited to share it with you later this year.

This past week was the cookbook shoot where we shot all the photographs for the cookbook.  I had a food photographer and her assistant fly into Portland.  It was a bit crazy because the whole city was shutting down thanks to Portland’s biggest snow storm in about thirty years but their planes managed to make it in amongst the hundreds of flight cancellations.   We spent five days shooting 50 recipes and 10 other lifestyle shots for the cookbook.  That meant that I got to recreate those 50 recipes in my kitchen.

I was so lucky to get to work with two great photographers – Erica Allen  a food photographer who is based out of LA and her trusty assistant, Bri of Briana Vail Photography who specializes in wedding photography in Utah, she’s also a great food stylist.

Let’s just say that 50 recipes requires a lot of food and a lot of cooking and my kitchen was pretty much a disaster all week.  There were usually 5-6 slow cookers going all day, every day.  If you follow me on IG, you got some peeks into the chaos on my Insta Story!

My two photographers were amazing and so fun to work with.  We had a great time together and I enjoyed learning from them.

I kept telling them they needed to move in with me and take all my photos for me.  This was a fun photo they took of the food prepped for one of our shots!

And they got this one too as the quiche patiently waited it’s turn to be photographed.  Let’s just say the table was not usually this clean!

As I mentioned we had a huge snowstorm in Portland that week and we even managed to spend a little time playing in the snow and taking pictures of it of course.

We had a beautiful view out the kitchen window too.

In addition to a lot of cooking there was also a lot of dish washing.

I lost track of how many times I ran my dishwasher each day!

The final recipe we shot was the Herbed Turkey Breast  – it made for a gorgeous shot!
We finished up a bit early on Friday so we made a trip, through the snow and ice to Salt & Straw, my favorite ice cream spot in Portland.  The girls loved it and there was no line thanks to 9 inches of snow and 20 degree temperatures!  It was the perfect way to celebrate wrapping up our week long shoot.   Loved these girls and I’m going to miss having them around.  Can’t wait to see the edited photos and how the cookbook comes together!!

Salt & Straw Ice Cream

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I’m a little late in sharing my 2017 Word of the Year.  I even debated whether I should share it or even pick one this year.  I started thinking about my 2016 Word of the Year and how I felt like I really hadn’t done a very good job in incorporating that word into my life.

2017 word of the year

2016 is a bit of a wild blur for me and I was feeling like I really didn’t accomplish much of what I had hope to do in regards to my Word of the Year, Create.

2016 started off a little rough for me with the unexpected death of my father.  My son was married about a month later and it was a wonderful and joyous occasion but very busy time.  My  daughter and I decided to start a new business together which was fun, exciting and a little scary all at the same time and then I accepted the opportunity to write a cookbook during the last quarter of the year.  This took a tremendous amount of my time and energy and brought along with it a lot of fears and anxiety as to whether I could really do it or not!!

I decided though that instead of focusing on all the things I didn’t accomplish like creating space in my home by getting it more organized (it actually got more disorganized), creating art by taking a watercolor and calligraphy class (neither of which happened), creating quiet in my life (I think I just ended up creating more noise!), I decided to focus on the things I did create this past year.

I helped create, along with my siblings, a beautiful and meaningful tribute to my father at his memorial service.

I created and put together a fun and memorable wedding rehearsal dinner for my son and his bride and put on a Barn Wedding Party  here in Portland for them later in April.

My daughter and I created and kicked off a new company and product line.  If you haven’t visited our store, 42 & Pine I’d love you to!

I created 100 new recipes for my cookbook which will be released later next year!

So even though I didn’t really create some of the things I set out to create, I did accomplish and create something.

So after a lot of thought, prayer and thinking about it, I did pick a 2017 Word of the Year.

My word is Thoughtfulness

1. showing consideration for others; considerate.

2. characterized by or manifesting careful thought : a thoughtful essay.

3. occupied with or given to thought; contemplative; meditative; reflective: in a thoughtful mood.

4. careful, heedful, or mindful: to be thoughtful of one’s safety.

I want to be more thoughtful in several different ways.  I want to be more thoughtful about choices I make, things I get involved with, purchases I make etc.  This last year has been so busy and crazy I feel like I just rushed through it, not really thinking sometimes, but making decisions and choices based on fear, anxiety, and needing to get it done.  I want to be more thoughtful, careful and mindful.

I also want to be more thoughtful of others.  I came across this quote from Mother Teresa and knew that my word needed to be thoughfulness.

I think in this crazy, wild world we live in that a lot of people are hungering for thoughtfulness.  It is so easy to ignore others, focus just on ourself and our own needs, to not be thoughtful of those around us.  Social media and all that goes with it makes it so easy to be and say thoughtless things.  I want people to know that I am thinking about them, remembering their birthdays and showing appreciation for them.

I want to be more thoughtful of the things I purchase and bring into my home.

I want to be more thoughtful and reflective and put those thoughts into a daily journal and continue to work on daily prayer and scripture reading too.

I hope that I can help change the world this year with small acts of thoughtfulness.

Did you choose a Word of the Year?  I’d love to hear what your word is.  Leave me a comment and let me know.

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2016 Book List

My 2016 Book List – all the books I read this year.

2016 Book List - everything I read this year

2016 Book List

Total Books Read:  33

I love putting this book list together each year.  It is like revisiting old friends as I review over the list of all the books I have read the past year.  This year there weren’t as many books as in past years but there were some good ones.  My love affair with Inspector Armand Gamache continued and it was fitting that the last book I read this year was Louise Penny’s newest book, and hopefully not last book, in this series.  Two of my favorite authors for the year were Susan Meissner and JC Sansom.  Both authors write historical fiction but are very different in topic and era.

Each year I like to pick a Favorite Read, my number one pick from my book list, and this year, my Favorite Read of 2016,  is Lilac Girls written by  Martha Hall Kelly.  My daughter and daughter in law also read it and loved it.  In fact, I have a trip back East planned for later next year to visit the Lilac Gardens of the main character of the book.  Read more about it in my review below.

Enjoy the list, including my list of books from October, November and December which I hadn’t posted yet.    I’d love to hear what you’ve been reading.

My rating system:  As last year, I have given the books I read a rating system (1-5 stars)  Books with a 2.5 or lower are often books I don’t finish a book because the language is bad or it is what I would consider R rated but sometimes I don’t finish a book because I just don’t like the subject matter or the story.    That doesn’t necessary mean someone else won’t love the book.  I did not rate  the non-fiction books I read, only the fiction.  I don’t give out too many 5.0.  The majority of what I read falls in the 3.5-4.0 range.  A book has to really wow me and make me want to read it again to get a 5.0.

Disclaimer:  We need to take personal responsibility for what we read and watch and we all have different standards so please be sure and check things out.  Although the majority of what I read I would consider rated PG there may a few books that I have read that don’t meet with your personal standards so please be a responsible reader.  I don’t want to offend anyone.

January Recommended Reads

Secrets of a Charmed Life by Susan Meissner was my book club read for the month.  I read the book back in September 2015 and I suggested to my book club that we read it.  I presented the book to the book club and loved reading it the second time just as much as I did the first time.  You can see my initial review of it here.

Secrets of a Charmed Life

4 stars

Bury Your Dead

Bury Your Dead by Louise Penny is another book in the Inspector Gamache series.  I have totally fallen in love with this series and I am going to be so sad when I have read them all. It takes place in French Quebec and is a murder mystery series that takes place in the charming village of Three Pines.  It has a fun and entertaining cast of characters. (some language)

4 stars

The Lake House by Kate Morton is another book by one of my favorite authors.  I have read all that Kate has written and loved them all.  This book was no exception.  One mid-summer’s night a baby disappears without a trace. Decades later the story continues as a curious young detective sets out to solve the unsolved mystery.

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5 stars

February Recommended Reads

Circling the Sun by Paula McLain is a book by the same author of The Paris Wife which I really enjoyed.  I didn’t like this book as much as The Paris Wife but it was still an interesting read. A piece of historical fiction that tells the story of Beryl Markham, a record-setting aviator who lived in colonial Kenya in 1920.  She was a woman ahead of her time and the book details her many adventures and loves.

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3.5 stars

March Recommended Reads

The Warden by Andrew Trollope was a new author to me.  This Victorian Era  book is part  the Barestshire series and is the story of 1855  English ecclesiastical life, written in the 1850’s. If you are a Pride & Prejudice fan I think you will enjoy this series too.  The author has a unique style and sense of humor.  This first book in the series is the story of a kindly clergyman who becomes the subject of a scandalous tabloid.

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3.5 stars

The Beautiful Mystery by Louise Penny, another Inspector Gamache book.  Did I mention how much I enjoy this series….only two more books to go 😦  (some language)

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4 stars

Dissolution by CJ Sansom is our book club choice for this month.  I loved it.  It is a murder mystery that takes place in Tudor England, one of my favorite time periods to read about. This is the first book in the Matthew Shardlake Tudor Mystery series. The book takes place during the time when King Henry VIII is dismantling the monasteries and a murder takes place in one of the monasteries and Matthew Shardlake, a hunchback lawyer,  is sent by Thomas Cromwell to figure things out!  I am currently reading the second one in the serires.

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4.5 stars

April Recommended Reads

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3.5 stars

After You by Jojo Moyes is the sequel to Me Before You.  Can’t say I loved this book but it is worth reading if you read the first one. The book deals with the aftermath of Will’s death and how Lou does and doesn’t deal with it. I preferred the Lou in the first book.  Definitely read Me Before You first.  I have read Moyes other work – The Girl You Left Behind and enjoyed it more.

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4 stars

The Nature of the Beast by Louise Penny is another one of my much loved Inspector Gamache series of murder mysteries that take place in French Quebec in a quaint, charming fictional village of Three Pines.  Although not my favorite of the series, I always love being transported to Three Pines and want to move there.  This is currently the last book in the series but there is another coming out in August of this year! (language)

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3.5 stars

The 12 Week Year  by Brian Moran is non fiction and I read this with a group of bloggers that I network with.  We read it alongside each other and held each other accountable which is a great way to read this book.  The concept revolves around defining your year into 12 week segments and setting and accomplishing your goals within that time frame. I’ve read a lot of “goal setting” books and this one was really nothing earth shatteringly new but worth a read if you are looking for a slightly new approach to goal setting and some inspiration.

The Long Way Home

4 stars

The Long Way Home by Louise Penny.  So I thought I had read the current last book in the Inspector Gamache series but then I realilzed I had skipped two – I was so excited!  I didn’t have to part ways with my friends in Three Pines yet. (language)

May Recommended Reads

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3 stars

The Husband’s Secret by Leanne Moriarty is one I had seen a lot of people recommend.  I didn’t love it. This was the first book in a series of “didn’t love” books I read.  In this story, a woman discovers a letter her husband has written to be opened on the event of his death, a letter that contains a deep dark secret.  It is the story of how this secret effects a group of women when his wife reads it before his death. I am not a fan of books that glorify infidelity and this is one of them.

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4 stars

Dark Fire by CJ Sansom is the second book in the Matthew Shardlake series. It is another Tudor murder mystery with the hunchback attorney Matthew Shardlake.  Our book club read the first one and this one and I am currently reading the third one so I guess I like them.   The books take place in the 1500’s during the reign of King Henry VIII and the dark and superstitious world that existed.  There is lots of interesting history woven in amongst the murder mystery.  If you are a mystery fan and a historical fiction fan you will enjoy this book.

June Recommended Reads

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4 stars

Stars over Sunset Boulevard by Susan Meissner is the same author who wrote one of my favorite books I read last year, Secrets of a Charmed Life.  See my review here.   I enjoyed this book just as much as Secrets.  This story takes place in Hollywood during the 1930’s while Gone with the Wind is being filmed.  Gone with the Wind is one of my favorite all time movies.  It is a fictionalized story of two young girls who are working at the studio where the movie is being filmed.  I love how the story of the filming of the movie is woven into the story plot.  It is a story of friendship and how those friendships shape our lives.

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4 stars

How the Light Gets in by Louise Penny is another one of the Inspector Gamache books I skipped over.  Such a pleasant surprise.

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2.5 stars

The Nest by Cynthia D’Aprix Sweeney is a book I had high expectations for.  I had seen it all over the place, people reading it in their book clubs, recommending it etc.  My expectations were not met and it was a disappointing read for me.  I should have known better when the first scene in the book deals with a sexual encounter in a car.  The story is of a group of siblings who are to receive an inheritance (the nest) and due to some indiscretions and resulting lawsuit of one of the siblings the nest is used to pay his legal expenses.  The story had some strange twists and turns and I guess it’s just not my kind of book and I probably should have just stopped reading but I kept thinking it was going to get better. (sex and language)

July Recommended Reads

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3.5 Stars

A Girl Named Zippy by Haven Kimmel.  This is the second time I have read this book.  This time it was for book club and I think I enjoyed it more the second time.  It is a memoir of a girl born in the sixties in the midwest and since I am a girl born in the 60’s in the midwest I could totally relate to so many things!  The book is full of humor and wit.    If you enjoy it, check out the sequel, She Got up Off the Couch.

 

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4 Stars

Soveriegn by CJ Sansom.  The third book in the Matthew Shardlake Mysteries.  Set in Tudor England, hunchback attorney, Matthew Shardlake, sets off to solve yet another murder mystery.  These books take care of both my fascination with the Tudor era and a good murder mystery!

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4.5 Stars

A Fall of Marigolds by Susan Meissner.  I have a new author to add to my list of favorites.  I am loving Susan Meissner and her books.  This is the third book of hers I have read and I enjoyed it as much as the others.  This one takes place on Ellis Island outside of New York City in 1911 after the historic Triangle Shirtwaist Fire in NYC. As with her other books, the storyline moves back and forth between present day and the past and I love to watch how the stories come together.

August Recommended Reads

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3 Stars

Vinegar Girl by Anne Tyler.  I have been reading Anne Tyler books since she wrote her first one.  This wasn’t one of my favorites but still a good read.  It is Tyler’s version of Shakespeare’s Taming of the Shrew.

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3.5 Stars

The Secret Language of Stones by  MJ Rose.  (some language)  This story is set in Paris during WWI in a jewelry store.  A young jeweler learns about love, passion, and her own healing powers in this romantic ghost/love story.    The story is a mixture of historic fiction, romance and mysticism.

September Recommended Reads

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3.5 Stars

The Forgetting Time  by Sharon Guskin (some language)  It took me  a bit to get into this story but I ended up enjoying it.  It deals with the questions of what happens after we die?   What happens before we are born?  The story of a young boy who has memories of a previous life who wants to return to it and a professor of psychology suffering from aphasia who is losing his memories.  It gives you some food for thought about previous lives, reincarnation etc.

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4.5 Stars

Lilac Girls  by Martha Hall Kelly.  I loved this book although there were times when it was hard to read because of the horrible things that happened in the camp, it is a powerful story.  The story takes place during WWII and revolves around Ravensbruck, an all female concentration camp.  It is a true story and it follows three women, one American socialite, a Polish girl imprisoned at Ravensbruck and a German female doctor.   I loved it so much that on my next trip to NYC I’m taking a trip over to Connecticut to visit the home of Caroline Ferriday and her lilac gardens.  If you are a fan of The Nightingale or Sarah’s Keys I think you will enjoy this book.

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2.5 Stars

The Woman in Cabin 10  by Ruth Ware  (language) A murder mystery set on a cruise ship, this book has been on the best sellers list lately but I’m not quite sure why.  I pushed my way through the book but found to it be very lackluster.

October Recommended Reads

4.0 Stars

Everyone Brave is Forgiven  by Chris Cleave.  This book is set in London during the Blitz of WWII.  The story is a perfect wartime love story inspired by the real-life love letters between the author’s grandparents.

3.5 Stars

The Wright Brothers by David McCullough.  This was a book club read that I’m not sure I would have read otherwise.  My husband is a big David McCullough fan and has read most of his historical books.  I found the book interesting but find that they read a little bit more like a text book than a novel.  If you love history and details then I highly recommend!

3.0 Stars

A Land More Kind Than Home by Wiley Cash .  This is the author’s first book and it is set in the hills of North Carolina, it is the story of an autistic boy, his bond with his brother and his death.   It is the story of faith and belief gone wrong, a community that follows a false prophet even when his methods lead to the deaths of members of their community.

3.5 Stars

Steal the Show by Michael Port.  This book is non fiction  and I read it because it was on my son’s audibile account.  We were on a road trip and the car we had rented was brand new and didnt have a CD player so I couldn’t listen to the book on CD I had brought alone.  I logged into my sons audible account  which contains mainly business/nonfiction.  Jim and I both listened to this book and found some good info that could be applied to lots of situations and relationships.  If you do any kind of public speaking, presentations etc. I highly recommend it but it’s about so much more than just public speaking. You’ll learn how to express yourself authentically, be more creative and increase your confidence in all aspects of life. My husband said he even learned something that would help in our relationship.

November Recommended Reads

4.0 Stars

Girl Waits With Gun by Amy Stewart.  This book is the true story of one of the country’s first female deputy sheriffs written using genealogical records, newspaper articles, and court documents. Excerpts from actual letters are used, and all the newspaper headlines throughout the book are real.  This book takes place in 1915 and Constance, the main character, is a maverick of her time.  I look forward to reading the next book in the Kopp Sisters Novel series.

4.0 Stars

The Fifth Avenue Artists Society by Joy Callaway. The story takes place in the Bronx of New York in 1891 among the artistic/literary/musical society of the city in the Gilded Age.  I thought this review on Amazon described it perfectly…“The creative sisterhood of Little Women, the social scandal of Edith Wharton and the courtship mishaps of Jane Austen. “

December Recommended Reads

4 Stars

The One In a Million Boy by Monica Wood.  This is the story of a 104 year old woman and the young boy scout assigned to help her around her house.  It is a friendship that touches not only the boy but his parents when the young boy unexpectedly dies and his father takes over his assignment with the old woman.

4.5 Stars

A Great Reckoning – Louise Penny.  Like I mentioned above I have a little love affair going with Inspector Gamache, the main character of this series.  Yes, my husband is fully aware of this.  This is the newest book in the series and I hope not the last one.  I so wish Three Pines wasn’t a fictional village because I want to live there and I want to be neighbors with Inspector Gamache and all the other loveable, endearing characters in this series.

Please leave me a comment and let me know what is on your book list from this past year.  I love hearing about the books you are reading and many of them end up on my book list.

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2015 Book List

2015 Book List

My 2015 Book List – all the books I read last year.

Each year I like to pick a Favorite Read.  This year my Favorite Read of 2015 was hard to pick.  I have to say it was a tie between Boys in the Boat and The Nightingale.  The first being historical and the second being my favorite genre, historical fiction.  I highly recommend them both.  My husband also loved Boys in the Boat and he even took up rowing after he read it.

I was also thrilled to discover a new favorite author – Louise Penny.  She has written a delightful series of murder mysteries featuring Inspector Armand Gamache.  I kind of have a crush on him!

Enjoy the list and I’d love to hear what you’ve been reading.

My rating system:  As last year, I have given the books I read a rating system (1-5 stars)  Books with a 2.5 or lower are often books I don’t finish a book because the language is bad or it is what I would consider R rated but sometimes I don’t finish a book because I just don’t like the subject matter or the story.    That doesn’t necessary mean someone else won’t love the book.  I did not rate  the non-fiction books I read, only the fiction.  I don’t give out too many 5.0.  The majority of what I read falls in the 3.5-4.0 range.  A book has to really wow me and make me want to read it again to get a 5.0.

Disclaimer:  We need to take personal responsibility for what we read and watch and we all have different standards so please be sure and check things out.  Although the majority of what I read I would consider rated PG there may a few books that I have read that don’t meet with your personal standards so please be a responsible reader.  I don’t want to offend anyone.

January Recommended Reads

The Storied Life of A.J. Fikry by Gabrielle Zevin was a book recommendation from one of you.  This story shares the importance of connecting with books and with people. A.J. Fikry is the owner of a small, independent bookstore on the small Alice Island in the Northeast.  He is cynical, cranky, and depressed and with good reason.  Read the book to find out what changes him.  If you are a book lover you will enjoythis book.

A Recommended Read - The Storied Life of A.J. Fikry

3.5 stars

Plain and Simple by Sue Bender is one of those books I have read more than once.  I will admit to a secret fascination with the Amish and a secret desire to live in an Amish community.  The author Sue Bender had the same dream and she lived it.  This story chronicles Sue’s experience of living in an Amish community where she asks the question, “Is there another way to lead a good life?”  I have read it twice and will read it many more times.

Plain and Simple by Sue Bender

4.5 stars

Mary, Martha and Me by Camille Fronk Olson is a book I read in preparation for a presentation I gave to a group of women at church.  I have always loved the story of Mary and Martha and have always felt Martha got a bad rap.  I love the way Olson presents the story and the lessons we can learn from both Mary and Martha.

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4.0 stars

Ten Things I Learned from Bill Porter by  Shelly Brady.  I read this book years ago so when our Book Club chose to read it last month I pulled it off my shelf.  It is a sweet, endearing and inspirational story of Bill Porter, a man from Portland, Oregon, who is a Watkins door to door salesman with cerebral palsy.  Shelly Brady, the author came and spoke to our book club and told of her experiences of working for and taking care of Bill.  The book is short and a very quick read.  It will leave you motivated to want to be a better person.  There is also a movie called Door to Door which is the story of Bill which is a delightful movie.  I highly recommend the movie.

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3.5 stars

All the Light We Cannot See by Anthony Doerr is a book I expected to love after all the wonderful things and glowing reviews I had heard about it.  I liked it, but I didn’t love it.  I think the mistake I made was listening to it on CD.  This is a book that should be read.  It flashes back and forth between two time periods and two different characters and that is difficult to track when listening instead of reading.  It is the story of a young orphaned German boy and a blind young French girl during WWII time period.  Two separate lives, two different countries but their lives intertwine. I highly recommended reading it, not listening to it.  I think I may need to give it another chance and read it.

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3.5 stars

February Recommended Reads

February is a short month and it was short on reading.

The Invisible Girls by Sarah Thebarge is a memoir.  This was a book club selection and I wasn’t excited about reading it but I am so glad I did.  I ended up really liking it.  It is the story of a Portland woman who meets a woman from Somalia who had been abandoned by her husband and her small daughters on a Portland MAX train one day. Sarah “adopts” this family and helps them learn to survive on their own story.  Sarah has her own story that is intertwined throughout the book.  The importance of being aware of and connecting with others and not allowing anyone, including ourselves to become “invisible” is an important message of the book.

The Invisible Girls by Sarah Thebarge

4 stars

March Recommended Reads

Garden Spells by Sarah Addison Allen, a recommended read

First Frost by Sarah Addison Allen.   I have read all of Allen’s books and have loved them all!  I loved First Frost too.  Her books are always a wonderful combination of love, fantasy, and food.  Be sure and read Garden Spells first for the beginning of the story of the Waverley family ten years earlier
4 stars

The Dressmaker of Khair Khana by Gayle Tzemach Lemmon is a remarkable true story.  Our book club read this the same month we read Invisible Girls (see above).  It is the story of some remarkable women of Afghanistan in the wake of the Taliban’s fearful rise to power.  Their story of strength, courage and fortitude.  How they reinvent themselves in order to take care of and save their family.  A truly inspiring story.  They do not become victims but become the backbone of their family and their country.  A story of war and a story of sisterhood.

Recommended Read - The Dressmaker of Khair Khana

4.5 stars

April Recommended Reads

Me Before You by Jojo Moyes was recommended by one of you and I liked it, didn’t love it.  It is by the same author of another book I read, The Girl You Left Behind which I enjoyed more than this one.  It is the story of Louisa, who has lived in the same English village her entire life.  She becomes the caretaker of a parapalegic and her life and view of life change.  It deals with the subject of “right to die” and there is some language.

Me Before You

3 stars

May Recommended Reads

Summer at Tiffany by Marjorie Hart was recommended by a friend when she learned that my daughter was headed to NYC to live and work this past summer.  She thought I would enjoy this story and I really did.  It is a delightful and quick read.  It is a memoir of two young girls who go to live in NYC for the summer and both get jobs as the first female employees at Tiffanys in 1945.  This summer becomes a magical time in the girls lives and  they get to meet Judy Garland, be in Times Squares on VJ Day and lots of other once in a life time experiences.

Summer at Tiffany

4 Stars

A Chimney Sweepers Come to Dust by Alan Bradley is another one of the Flavia de Luce Novels which I am pretty much addicted too.  This is the newest one in the series and I have read and loved all the rest.  A delightful continuation of the story of young Flavia and her ability to find trouble (murder) wherever she goes.  Even when she is away at boarding school!

The Chimney Sweepers Come to Dust

4.5 Stars

Carrot Cake Murder by Joanne Fluke was not a favorite.  I listened to it on CD and if I had something else to listen to I would have probably not finished the book but since I had nothing else to listen too I plugged through it. It is a basic, run of the mill murder with really nothing interesting, intriguing or reason to keep reading other than it’s all you have to read!

Carrot-Cake-Murder

1 star

Maisie Dobbs by Jacqueline Winspear was another blog reader recommendation and I found it delightful.  This is the first in the series of female investigator Maisie Dobbs.  The story takes place in London in 1929 when female investigators were not the norm. Reads more like a novel than a mystery.  I have the next one in the series on my To Read list.

Maisie Dobbs

3.5 Stars

The Rosie Effect by Graeme Simsion picks up where The Rosie Project left off.  It is the continuing story of Don Tillman,  a professor who has Asperger’s and the story of his marriage and what happens when he unexpectedly learns he is to be a father.  Liked but didn’t love but since I had read the first one I decided to read this one too.  Some language.

The Rosie Effect

3 Stars

June Recommended Reads

The Boys in the Boat by Daniel James Brown was highly recommended by my husband.  He is not a big reader so when he reads a book and really enjoys it I listen.  We were also reading it for my Book Club.  I loved it. It is a piece of non fiction that reads just like a novel.  It is the true story of Nine Americans from University of Washington and their quest as a men’s rowing team to win the 1936 Olympics in Berlin.  The story is of remarkable achievement as these young men overcome many obstacles through determination, hard work and teamwork  to reach their goal.

The Boys in the Boat

5 Stars

Lydia Cassatt Reading the Morning Paper by Harriet Scott Chessman was a recommendation from my mom.  She knew I had always enjoyed the artwork of  Impressionist painter, Mary Cassatt and she thought I would enjoy the book too.  It is a sweet, quick read and is the behind the scenes story to Mary’s paintings.  Her dying sister Lydia was her model for many of them and the book tells Lydia’s story.

Lydia Cassatt Reading the Morning Paper

3.5 stars

The Life Changing Magic Of Tidying Up by Marie Kondo did not change my life but it did help me clean out my closet.  This book is all the rage now and I did find the idea and concept of the book interesting and it helped me to look at all my stuff differently! Does it bring me joy?  I did a massive clean out of my closet after reading it and although I haven’t tackled the rest of my house, I am thinking about it.

The Life Changing Magic of Tidying Up

3.5 stars

 July Recommended Reads

The Nightingale by  Kristin Hannah was recommended to me by a lot of people and I loved it.  It is historical fiction or rather fiction based on history and takes place in one of my favorite places – France during one of my favorite times to read about, WWII.  This book tells the story of the “women’s war”, what life was like for the women left behind.  I showcases the human spirit and the durability of women.

Recommended Reads

4.5 stars

The One Thing by Gary Keller was one of the non-fiction books I read this quarter.  I like to read at least one or two a quarter.  This book has great ideas and tips on how to be more productive and the importance on discovering and focusing in on the one thing at a time.  I needed this one!

Recommended Reads

4 stars

Season of Storms by Susannah Kearsley who is one of my all time favorite authors.  I have read everything she has written!  If you are a fan of historical fiction you must read her books!   I loved  the book as much as all the others.  This one takes place in Italy and is the perfect combination of myster and romance.

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4.5 stars

The Miracle Morning by Hal Elrod is another non fiction pick.  Promising to transform your life if you follow it’s principles this book teaches you how to  wake up each day with more ENERGY, MOTIVATION, and FOCUS to take your life to the next level if you follow it’s teachings.  I enjoyed the book and am a firm believer in the power a miracle morning can have and the difference it can make.  I just need to be better at setting that alarm and getting up early!!

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3.5 stars

The Spool of Blue Thread by Ann Tyler is the author’s newest book.  I have read everything she has written.  I originally started listening to this one on CD and just wasn’t drawn into the story.  A month or so later I gave it another try and read it this time instead of listening too it and enjoyed the story although it’s not my favorite book the author has written.    This story is about a family, their  home and all the emotion and quirkyness that comes with a family.

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3 stars

Odd Thomas by Dean Koontz lives up to it’s name – it is odd.  This book was chosen by our book club and not one I would have read on my own or even been aware of!  I have never read any of Dean Koontz before.  This is a story of a man named Odd Thomas and he is odd!  Odd is a short order cook in a small town who sees dead people, including Elvis Presley and uses his ability to help the local police.  The book is the first in a series of Odd Thomas books.

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3 stars

At the Water’s Edge by Sara Gruen is written by the same author as Water for Elephants  It is a story that takes place at the end of WWII in the Scottish Highlands where Maddie, her husband and his friend set out to find the Loch Ness Monster.  Maddies discovers another world she didn’t imagine, finds true love and friendship and the dark forces around her.

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4 stars

August Recommended Reads

A Desperate Fortune by Susanna Kearsley  is Susanna Kearsley newest book.  She combines contemporary and historical fiction once again along with romance and intrigue.  The perfect combination as codebreaker Sara Thomas heads to Paris to crack the code of a 300 year old journal.

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4.5 stars

Paper Love by Sarah Wildman came highly recommended to me by a close friend.  I have to admit I didn’t love it as much as she did but it is definitely worth reading, especially if you want to learn more of life during WWII.  This is a true story, the story of a woman who goes looking for the true story of her grandfather and a girl he left behind in Vienna after finding some old letters of her grandfathers. There is lots of information, history and facts about what life was really like for Jews in Vienna during this period.  At times it read more like a text book than a novel but you will be fascinated and appalled.

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3.5 stars

Euphoria by Lily King is loosely based on the life story of anthropologist Margaret Mead.   It isi the story of three young, gifted anthropologists of the ‘30’s caught in a passionate love triangle that threatens their bonds, their careers, and, ultimately, their lives.

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3 stars

The Life Intended by Kristin Harmel leaves you with things to think about.  Are you living the life you thought you were intended to live and what happens when life happens and you aren’t living the life you intended to live?  It is a story of finding happiness and learning to deal with grief and guilt.

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4 stars

September Recommended Reads

Secrets of a Charmed Life by Susan Meissner takes place during The Blitz in London, a time period I haven’t read much about.  It is a beautiful story and one that leaves you asking yourself  “What if?”  What if you had made a different choice or decision, how would that have changed things.  A story of love, loss and sacrifice.  I am presenting this book to my book club in January.

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4 stars

Still Life by Louise Penny is the first in a delightful new murder mystery series I was recommended.  The series takes place in French Quebec, Canada in the quaint village of Three Pines.  A place you will totally want to move after you read the first book, despite the fact that people are murdered there.  The main character, Cheif Inspector Gamache is delightful and you love him from the beginning.   He is a man of integrity and quiet courage and you will fall in love with all the fun and quirky cast of characters that live in Three Pines.  (There is some language)

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4 stars

Fatal Grace by Louise Penny is the second in the Chief Inspector Gamache series,  I am making my way through all of them and loving them.  If you have ever watched Midsomer Murders on BBC you will love this series too.

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4 stars

October Recommended Reads

Birds of a Feather by Jacqueline Winspear.  This is the second book in the Maisie Dobbs series.  I reviewed the first one in May.  This is a delightful series of an intelligent and resourceful female detective in London set in the 1930’s.

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3.5 stars

Still Life by  Louise Penny… more Inspector Gamache. I’m on a roll.

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4 stars

A Rule Against Murder by Louise Penny

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4 stars

November Recommended Reads

My Inspector Gamache infatuation continues….

The Cruelest Month by Louise Penny

The Cruelest Month

November Recommended Reads

What She Left Behind by Ellen Marie Wiseman deals with two parallel story lines.  Two different young women – born 60 years apart.  The story deals with mental illness, love, loss and redemption with some surprises thrown in at the end.

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3.5 stars

December Recommended Reads

Beautiful Ruins by Jess Walter is the story of an almost-love affair that begins on the Italian coast in 1962…and is rekindled in Hollywood fifty years later. Fun historical characters like Elizabeth Taylor and Richard Burton are part of the story line.

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  3.5 Stars

The Brutal Telling by Louise Penny.  I love a good series and I love when there are more than just a couple of books in the series.  Still going strong with Inspector Gamache.

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4 stars

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I am often asked how I select my Word of the Year.  Today I’m sharing the process I go through.

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“Words are, of course, the most powerful drug used by mankind.”

Rudyard Kipling

Words can take our breath away, words can break our heart or melt our heart. Words can be simple things but yield great power.

One little word can change the world

I have loved words my whole life. I have always loved to read and my weekly visits to the library are some of my favorite childhood memories. In college I began collecting words , surrounding myself with words, posting them on my bulletin board, my mirror, filling file folders and note books full of words, quotes etc.

We can be inspired to do great things through words. It may be a simple word but it can have great power and hit the deepest part of our souls.

Words create impressions, images and expectations, they influence how we think, how we act. There is a powerful connection between words and actions and the results we get.

Resolutions vs. Words

Eight years ago, instead of setting new year’s resolutions that I most likely wouldn’t keep, I decided to choose a word for the year – A word that I wanted to embrace and focus on through the year. A word I wanted to incorporate into my life and who I was.

Usually resolutions or goals do little to inspire us. But a word can inspire us.

My Words:

There are lots of words out there – how did I begin the process of selecting the word that was just right for me?

The process in determining my word each year is always interesting and I look forward to discovering how my word finds me each year. Because it does just that – it finds me. I love to see how the word manifests itself through my year and how it grows and develops.

2009 Word of the Year – JOY It was a word that spoke to my heart, a word that just seemed to keep appearing in my life every time I turned around.

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For me Joy was not just for Christmas but something I needed to focus on all year round. I actually put up some vinyl lettering at Christmas that said, “Joy to the World” and it stayed there for 3 years until we repainted.

My word came from this quote:

“Let us relish life as we live it, find JOY in the journey and share our love with friends and family.

Thomas S. Monson

I decided to find Joy in MY Journey. Life does not always go according to plan and in 2008/2009 we were in the middle of what would be 3 periods of unemployment in 4 years.

I worked hard that year to find my Joy – it wasn’t always easy but I think I am a happier and more joyful person as a result of it. I dealt with difficult situations better and found joy in the small, simple things of everyday life.

2010 Word of the Year – RE My word was not really a word – it was a prefix. I spent a lot of time thinking and praying about my word for 2010 I wanted to make sure I picked the right word. I had seen the impact and influence the word Joy had had on my year. The word or prefix actually came to me while I was sitting in church one day.

Re – meaning again, back, repeat.

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You see in 2010 I was turning 50. I realized that there weren’t a lot of new things I wanted to try or accomplish. Instead I realized that there were things I wanted to return to, skills I wanted to refine or reclaim. People I wanted to reconnect with, things I wanted to rediscover about myself and places I wanted to revisit. And most important things I wanted to remember (I was turning 50 after all) And I wanted to learn how to relax!

See a theme – return, refine, reclaim, reconnect, rediscover, revisit, relax!

Most importantly I wanted to Remember to Recognize the hand of the Lord in my life on a daily basis. I decided to keep a journal where I write each night how I recognized the hand of the Lord in my life that day

I needed to remember and recognize the Lord’s hand in my life. Even during those difficult years when our life wasn’t going according to plan I needed to realize and recognize that the Lord’s hand was directing our life.

How to Choose Your Word:

Sometimes you will find your word and sometimes you word will find you.

Some of you will know immediately what your word is – others of you will need some time.

Sometimes you will think your word is one thing but then it becomes another. Give it a little time, let it grow on you.

Here are some questions to ask yourself as you find your word:

  1. What’s the thing you most want to achieve this year?
  2. Think back over the last year– can you define it in one word? Now think ahead one year – what word would you like to describe it when it is over?
  3. Make a list of words that come to mind and then sleep on it, think on it and even pray about it.
  4. Look for it, listen for it. Remember this is your word and there is no right or wrong word. Choose a word that “fits” You.

Enjoy the process, have fun with it. Make it your word.

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